At a jaw dropping press conference today, Gov. Mark Sanford (R-S.C.) announced that during his mysterious absence over Father's Day weekend, he was, in fact, visiting a woman in Argentina with whom he has been having an affair for the last year.
"The bottom line is this -- I have been unfaithful to my wife," Sanford said before a mass of cameras and reporters at the State House in Columbia, S.C. "All I can say is I apologize," he said.
Sanford, an avowed Christian conservative, apologized to "people of faith," wiped tears from his eyes, and invoked the Bible during his confession to the cameras. "If you were to look at God's laws, they are in every instance designed to protect people from themselves. I think that that is the bottom line of God's law."
The governor did not resign from his job, but did step down from his leadership position as the head of the Republican Governors Association.
When answering questions from reporters, Sanford said he had not had other affairs and that, "I am committed to trying to get my heart right." He also described news trucks parked outside his family's house on Sullivan's Island, S.C., and asked reporters for privacy, "If not for me, then for (Jenny) and the boys."
Sanford's admission of infidelity is the second in as many weeks for high-profile Republicans who were considered rising stars within their party. Last week, Sen. John Ensign (R-Nev.) admitted that he, too, had been unfaithful to his wife. At a Las Vegas press conference, Ensign said he had been in a relationship with a campaign staff member, who was also the wife of the top staffer in his Senate office. Like Sanford, Ensign resigned his leadership post within the party, but not his job.
UPDATE: The State newspaper in Columbia has revealed portions of several emails between Sanford and his mistress, Maria. The paper notes that it obtained the emails in December, and that they come from Sanford's personal email account.
In one, Sanford writes to Maria, "You have a particular grace and calm that I adore. You have a level of sophistication that so fitting with your beauty. I could digress and say that you have the ability to give magnificent gentle kisses, or that I love your tan lines..." You get the picture.
In another, Maria writes back, "But unfortunately I am not in love with him ... You are my love ... something hard to believe even for myself as it's also a kind of impossible love, not only because of distance but situation."
You can see the full report from The StateHERE, and video of the Sanford press conference below:
Patricia Murphy writes "The Capitolist" column for PoliticsDaily.com. She is the founder of Citizen Jane Politics, a non-partisan website for women... more
Whew.. I pity those four boys.. Some role model father they've got.
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JefFlyingV
3:58PM Jun 24th 2009
Is this turning into a new fad within the Republican Party, how to join the 'horns club' the GOP way?
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neil
4:03PM Jun 24th 2009
i wonder how long its going to take someone on here to blame sanford affair on obama
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Joyce
4:45PM Jun 24th 2009
I agree with you ,something else for them to blame on the President.My heart goes out to his wife and boys.Just think he didnt have his mind on the Stimulus money,it was on his pants down.
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Tom
5:00PM Jun 24th 2009
This is just claptrap. You KNOW the big O is responsible for this. The reasoning is clear:
Obama is setting an example of marital fidelity, spending time with his children and dealing honestly with personal problems (like his nicotine adiction). Republicans are required to oppose him in every possible detail.
So Obama is FORCING Republican leaders to act immorally, to traduce their vaunted family values, to lie about their daily conduct, and even to propose treasonous foreign policy adventures. He's FORCING them to it. They don't want to be bad, but he's being good and they MUST oppose that.
It IS his fault.
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Splash
10:03AM Jun 25th 2009
Tom -
That was just plain good ... but, all joking aside, it is The Big O's fault...
...just wanted to end your anticipation, Neil!
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ProPalin
4:05PM Jun 24th 2009
WOW the wolves are gonna LOVE this! When a follower of Christ falls, like we all do in one way or another, the mob yowls in glee! Christ's Name is being dragged through the mud and they LOVE IT! This in fact, quite sad. Now it's PayDay and I wonder if the sex was worth this scandal. I wish these adulterers weren't so high-profile. All of us screw up daily and need forgiveness daily. There are millions of good godly Christian men/husbands/fathers who DO NOT HAVE MISTRESSES. But this one man, who in his weakness broke his vows, is gonna be all over the news and a laughingstock from now on. Sad. Bill Clinton was never acquitted for lying under oath, PM. To impeach merely means to accuse of a crime and he was accused of the crime of lying under oath. He admitted he lied while under oath because his sex life was nobody's business.
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dumanbeing
4:47PM Jun 24th 2009
You wrote, "...who in his weakness broke his vows..." and I want to clarify the world outside of fundamentalism for you. Weakness is when you are in an environment where evil tempts you to sin. Then, you call it weakness. But, let us be clear: Gov Stanford got in a plane, on Father's Day weekend, flew to Argentina to be with a woman not his wife. This is not weakness; this is a change of heart.
Now, are you going to persecute the man for a change of heart? And also, all those so-called Christian men/husbands/fathers you are so sure aren't having affairs...you know nothing...leave the all knowingness to God.
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cjjanis001
8:43AM Jun 25th 2009
Once again those who point their fingers at others is on the other end. Once again another Conservative Christian has to drag Christ into it. Sanford used the bible and Christ name many times in his BS filled speech. For once I would like these dirt bags to admit their failure without dragging Christ into their confession, I am sure he had nothing to do with Sanfords breaking up two marriages.
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moderate
4:12PM Jun 24th 2009
Another one! the pious, family values, hypocritical morality police are dropping like flies. You guys set yourself up for this by screaming about your moral superiority, we are waiting for you guys to resign. Hell, people are condemning Obama because he smokes, but they are all set to make excuses for the republicans and their lose morals and disregard of their marriage vows. He's sorry, he cried, he should.
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mindfree159
10:41PM Jun 24th 2009
he is the victim of his prick like allthe others before him
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kathy
1:12AM Jun 25th 2009
moderate, I've been trying to figure out something, why does anyone care if Obama smokes once in a while? Does that make any sense to you? I see most of the Media say something about it, not just Fox but others too. But it seems to me we have a generation of Politicians Democrat & Republican that seem to be getting themselves into trouble lately. What the hell is up with that?
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Somber
4:35PM Jun 24th 2009
And here I thought that marriage was supposed to be a sacred institution according to the GOP... but I can't get married because my relationship to another woman is 'immoral'.
And the hypocracy just keeps on mounting.
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Splash
10:14AM Jun 25th 2009
Hi Somber -
Another Republican to feed on. I love Republicans!
They taste like chicken!! They refer to the Bible both to attack their enemies and to escape legitimate criticism; the ultimate hypocrisy. This is why the Moderate Republicans screwed up when they pandered for the endorsement of the Religious Right. Now they cannot make in unter the limbo bar.
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dumanbeing
4:38PM Jun 24th 2009
Gov. Stanford is in love with the lady in Argentina. You can jsut hear it in his voice, not to mention, he placed her 'first' in his list of hurt people. When you're in love, you're in love, wonder what he's gonna do concerning his family?
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Pundit
4:40PM Jun 24th 2009
Touche' again Moderate!
Every single one of them from Newt, w, Ensign, Craig, Foley, Palin, Haggard on down, is a con hypocrite.
Hopefully these lameo's will grow up and conclude that sexuality & politics are separate issues not deserving of their 'Holier Than Thou attitude'.
It certainly would be nice to debate the real issues, instead of Reality TV politics for faux ratings.
But as we all know too well, the replicons can't honestly debate their unanimously failed lack of policies, containing no substance i.e. Boehner's empty News conference of blank budget proposal pages having just page numbers.
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moderate
5:13PM Jun 24th 2009
So true Pundit. You cannot make this stuff up. Maybe their god is tired of the hypocrisy.
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DD8V92
1:10AM Jun 25th 2009
The Republicans are cheating on their spouses and the Lefty-Libs like Pelosi and Reid are screwing this country.
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Splash
10:31AM Jun 25th 2009
DD8V92 - You must admit, the Repukes did their share of screwing up the country and the 'Leftie-Libs" have done their fair share of cheating. However the Left are much stronger at getting their screwed up policies signed into law and they have much better apologists to excuse their indiscretions.
It has to make you wonder who are the more skilled group of politicians. Hands down, it is the Liberals. But, deep down, they are one and the same.
Pundit - It wasn't too long ago that the Democruds were criticizing without any real proposals of their own.
Moderate - or maybe their 'God' has thrown up his hands and converted to hedonism. These folks are much easier to love ...
so little comments on this subject...whats up repubs if this was a dem ..there would have being at least 100 comments by now...or something negative about obama there be comments running like crazy...back when clinton had his affair most of you repubs were saying he should resign..what about sanford and esign..where is the outrage ?or is only for dems