Argentine media are in a froth over the Mark Sanford scandal, and have, they believe, located the woman with whom the South Carolina governor has been conducting his extramarital affair. Here's eight-year-old video that has been dug up of Maria Belén Chapur, who was, at that time, said to be an aspiring journalist:
What else do we know about Ms. Chapur? Apparently, she is a marathon runner, and is fluent in several languages: English, Portuguese, Spanish and Mandarin Chinese. She's now 43, and is the mother of two. Why do we care to know these details? Perhaps because her lover, Governor Sanford, made such a show his own supposed moral superiority to the likes of Bill Clinton. Perhaps taxpayers would like to hear more about the woman, who, with the help of their tax dollars, Sanford went to visit on "official" state business. Or, maybe we just want to know more about the woman who elicited such wonderfully romantic prose.
Whatever the reason, it is clear that this case, unlike so many recent revelations of wife-cheating government officials (Ensign, Spitzer, Craig and Clinton, to name a few), involved true love.
So do it Mark. That's exactly what you should do. If you are truly and passionately in love with the Argentinean Maria, why ruin several lives by denying it. You're not doing your wife, Jenny, any favors by resigning yourself to a marriage that's no longer working.
You are a complete moron! Who are you to give such advice? You have no great insight into their lives. You are completely ignorant of who these people really are, yet you think you know what is best for them. Marriage takes work, tons of work especially if you have children. None of us have any idea what is truly going on in their marriage. It is so easy to say give up and move on. No matter what the emails said, you Bonnie, don't know if he loves his skanky mistress or not. One thing we do know is that Mark and Jenny Sanford loved each other enough to marry and work on their marriage to stay married for twenty years. On top of that they brought four children into this world together that they committed together to raise and love and to teach right and wrong.
Yes, it makes my stomach turn to see a person betrayed and disgraced and to have their pain put on public display. I think he is a total bastard for what he has done, but fortunately, people can change and can work through their mistakes. And as far as this couples future goes, no outside party has the right, nor should be giving such ridiculously ignorant advice.
Maybe the outcome should be for them to leave each other, but that isn't for anyone but them to decide.
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valentsgrif
11:55AM Jun 26th 2009
Jeez, he called for Bill Clinton to resign because 1) Clinton commited perjury by lying under oath in legal proceeding NOT TO PROTECT HIS FAMILY, but to protect his wallet in the civil suit and 2), Clinton allowed his wife and daughter to publicly defend him all the while he knew Lewinsky was telling the truth, and 3)Clinton had his minions try to destroy the reputation of Lewinsky, and the other women sexually harrassed by Clinton. NOBODY cared that Clinton had sex outside his marriage- Clinton was voted to be impeached soley because of the other ugly stuff.
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ndb216
9:23PM Jun 26th 2009
He is a disgrace: as a husband, a father, and as a governor. He told the reporter at the airport that he was 'close to' hating his job. Well, in that case, do everyone a favor and resign. Go ahead and tiptoe through the tulips with your girlfriend. The rest of us have a lot of work to do repairing the damage you and your holier-than-thou brethren have done to this country.
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RIChris
9:06AM Jun 27th 2009
Something to be said for the simpler times, when Sanford's adultrous, corrupt behavior mandated he resign and Chapur's behavior was called what it is, whorish.