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    Bonnie Goldstein

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    We Get Letters . . . Politics Daily Gives Advice

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    11/5/09
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    Dear Politics Daily:
    I recently lost my job as head of a small but strategically placed East Coast state and am considering my professional and personal prospects for the future. I entered public service relatively late in life after a successful career in finance that ended on an uncomfortable note but nevertheless left me well fixed monetarily.
    I used a pile of the cash I made to run for office but after winning a job in Washington, my marriage of three decades ended with public accusations from my ex that nearly cost me an election. The next relationship with a high-profile supporter didn't end well either. I paid about $6 million to break up with her. Since then, despite a nasty car accident in 2007 that kept me away from the social scene for awhile, I've been dating a psychotherapist who is close to my age.
    My question is, without the impressive seal and free housing that went with my last job, will women still want to date me? Should I try to get hired back by my old employer? The banking job had a great reputation back in the 1990s but the company has lost some prestige since then (I heard they still pay well, however). I should add that I'm in good shape physically with no unattractive chubbiness.
    Signed, The Money Honey

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    Dear Honey:
    By the sound of things, you really enjoy your high-stakes lifestyle but are old enough to finally begin acting like a senior statesman. I'd suggest you seal the deal with the grown-up woman who understands your psychological pathologies. Then, commit to do the best you can to be an honorable partner. As for returning to a job in the financial sector, let your conscience be your guide, but if you do return to driving big business deals, wear a seatbelt.
    *****
    Dear PD:
    I used to be an important mayor showing great courage and self-promotion skills during a big crisis in 2001, but after my term expired I could not get much traction in subsequent political efforts. I'm happy to just go to ballgames, dress up in funny costumes and give speeches, but my new wife likes the limelight. My favorite team just won a big series after nine unsuccessful years at bat, and I was wondering if I should take their victory as a sign I should get back into political competition? There's a big contest coming up in 2012 where a guy like me would be a long shot but I might be able to get on a ticket. Should I go for it?
    Signed, Yankees Fan
    Dear Fan:
    The only tickets you should be pursuing are for box seats. Every game has its season, and yours may be over; try to be content with past glories.
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    Yo! Politics Daily:
    I am a high school dropout but have always made the most of opportunities. Though I am unusually focused, some people confuse this quality for arrogance. I am a trained law enforcement officer and was once nominated for a Cabinet-level position in the security field. Unfortunately, my fortunes have taken a turn for the worse in the last few years. To make matters worse, I am about to undergo a big change in my accommodations. It looks like I'll live in the new quarters up to 33 months, so I'd like some advice on how to be accepted by my new neighbors.
    I have always made myself at home in any habitat. For example, one editor girlfriend and I shared a love nest that was donated for the comfort of fellow officers near a particularly high-profile crime scene. Another time, some contractors helped me out and did some nice, affordable high-end work to make my Riverdale condo more livable, then they didn't hold it against me when the favor I did for them in return didn't pan out. Although the place I live now has been a little isolated and lonely, the landlord has been very concerned for my welfare. Despite my track record of living well, I'm worried that fellow residents in my new place won't like me. Though I am a fifth-degree black belt, I am afraid in my current unstable state I could have an accident. What do you suggest I do to make my new living situation as safe and friendly as possible?
    Signed, Call Me Commish
    Dear Commish:
    In any new living situation there are always adjustments. I suggest you reacquaint yourself with those contractors you mentioned and see if they have friends in the new place who can keep an eye out for you. Good luck and, until you get to know everyone, someone should make sure your doors are locked.




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    Bonnie Goldstein

    Bonnie Goldstein has been a private eye, Senate aide, coat check girl, Slate columnist, and investigative producer for ABC News.... more

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