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Since everyone is still talking about same-sex marriage and Proposition 8, it might be helpful to have a list of talking points in case you stumble across someone -- at your kid's soccer practice, in line at the post office, at a dinner party, while watching cable news -- whose opinion of Judge Walker's ruling is as pronounced as it is unfounded (or just plain ignorant). If and when this occurs you can simply reel off one of these passages instead of faking a seizure, pretending that you just received a text message, or chewing off your arm to change the subject . . .For those of y'all who think that same-sex marriage will "ruin the sanctity" of marriage, please look up the story on PD titled "The Un-Divorce" and tell me that the sanctity still exists. Also: Drive-through weddings, Britney Spears' 48-hour wedding, etc. etc. ad infinitum. There truly is no logical LEGAL reason why same-sex marriage is not fully supported. Regarding your religious rights, if two men or two women came into your church asking to be married, yes, you would have every right to turn them down. They can then step outside and go to one of the thousands of churches nationwide (found here: http://www.gaychurch.org/Find_a_Church/united_states/united_states.htm) that are willing and happy to marry a same-sex couple...but who is defending the religious rights of these churches? Shouldn't they have the same right to practice their religion as you do?
August 18 2010 at 4:27 PM Report abuse Permalink -1 rate up rate down ReplyNow that the next decision will be taken up by the 9th Circuit Court of Appeals it is up to those to show where this law does not violate the constitution of the Republic of the United States of America. Then it will surely be appealed by either side win or loose to the Supreme Court if they decide to hear the case.
For those of you that say that "marriage" is a religious term. You would be correct, but it is also a legal term used in the court system as well. Those of you who keep pushing your religious beliefs have all the right to voice those beliefs. I will stand by you and agree with you on that point. But, you know, your rights end at the tip of your nose. As long as you are not infringing upon another person's rights you can thump your Bible, Koran, or Torah all you want. I support you and respect those rights. You should let others excercise their rights as you do with freedom.
We all know that you are holding onto the last threads of your defense and hiding behind the wall of your religion. Believe me when it is said, "The gays know you don't want them in your places of religion"! I am sure most gays would be happy to let you live in your own little world of your own holding those religious beliefs. I know speaking for msyself when I say this, "more power to you".
I do think that it is not really a religious issue for most of you that are protesting the decision by the judge to invalidate prop 8. It is simply that you don't want others to have the same privilidges as you do. You are just like spoiled children saying "mine, mine, all mine".
There has been not one person who has made a real case where letting gays live their lives without the love and care of religious bigots trying to steer them away from sin. We are all grown ups here. Also, why is it that you people who profess religious reasons are all concerned what gays do in the privacy of their own home? Are you jealous and you are mad because you can't involved yourself?
ok now here this here is how to solve the gay marriage problem --make a new law that repeales taxes for married copules make married and singles pay the same taxes and get the same medical insurence benefits--eliminate the marriage equation
August 16 2010 at 8:11 PM Report abuse Permalink -1 rate up rate down ReplyAsk them about the FEDERAL law that defines marriage as between one man and one woman. Ask them if Judge Walker ruled that the federal law was unconstitutional too.
August 16 2010 at 8:05 PM Report abuse Permalink -6 rate up rate down ReplySome day, that will also be challenged in Federal Court over issues such as survivors rights to spousal social security benefits, and access of a same sex spouse to their spouses VA medical benefits. Citizens of states that affirm the right of same sex couples to marry and have state income taxes create the burden of the couple being subject to two different ways of filing and planning their taxes two different ways. The concept of civil union also requires the couple to pre-file to preserve the right of health care decision making or it can (and often is) readily set aside by Hospitals and Doctors. This isn't just a theoretical discussion of your or my view of what I believe about gay marriage. There are legal issues of equal access involved here as well.
August 21 2010 at 10:26 PM Report abuse Permalink rate up rate down ReplyMarriage is a Biblical term just as Bar Mitzvah is a Jewish term, and to have someone commit a sin according to the bible (homosexuality) and then asked to have their sinful relationship recognized with the same label as a wedded couple is an insult to my faith. It would be as if a 16 year old non-jewish boy wants to have a drunken (sinful) party for his birthday, and call it a Bar Mitzvah. That would also be a slap in the face to Jews the world over. If Gays want to be joined in a Civil Union in the eyes of the Government and receive the same legal rights as married couples, I could care less. They will answer to God in the end for the sin. Just don't expect me to sit by and have you spit in the face of my religion or my belief by hijacking a term that literally means a man and a women joined in matrimony in the eyes of the Lord.
"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous."
—Hebrews 13:4
Oh, Rich. Thankfully we don't live in a theocracy. It always amazes me when "Christians" point to the Bible and say "Traditional Marriage". You know what else in your book? Gensis 2:24 (A nuclear family); Deuteronomy 25 5-10; Brother-in-Law marries his brothers wife; Genesis 4:19...and many, many other references for Polygymous marriage...MEN can have many, many wives. Women can only have 1. (Gee, even then women were looked on as property). Genesis 29-30: Man, Woman and SLAVE(s). Deuteronomy 22:28-29: Raper and Rape Victim. Genesis 22:24 (and others). Man and Woman (or wives) and throw in some Concubines too! Numbers 31:1-18: Male Soldier and female prisoners. And less we forget the Bible is FULL of enlightened, well-reasoned commandments like when a women is having her period she is "unclean" and therefore not to be permitted under her husband's roof. Do these sound like the laws of a modern, enlightened (have to use that term because, as a species, we ARE more enlightened than say, we were 2,000, 3,000, or even 5,000 years ago.) society? Would we want to change our current marriage laws to encompass the above Biblical practices? Of course not. Marriage has been and always will be an evolving institution.
And furthermore, one of countries greatest beliefs is the principle that the rights of the minority are NEVER voted on by the majority. (That's why the founding father's, in their wisdom, created the THREE branches of government. The Judiciary branch is there to correct the Legislative when, as in this example people vote to deny marriage benefits to Gays and Lesbians.
When it comes right down to it Rich, the marriage of Adam and Steve does not affect YOUR marriage. You keep doin' what you're doin' and praying to your G-d. It's called live and let live.
We don't take votes on rights..they are inalienable which means not up for discussion. Why, pray tell me, are conservatives always trying to take away rights? Ever seen a conservative who believed in granting rights other than gun rights? It totally confounds me.
August 16 2010 at 5:41 PM Report abuse Permalink +9 rate up rate down ReplyArticle 111 of the Constitution says NOTHING about protection from "tyrrany of the majority." Again, NOTHING. I've been overruled at the polls many times. I accepted it believing that the majority ruled. Little did I know that it doesn't
matter nor does logic apply any more. I'm fed up. Gays are now afforded most of the priveleges of marriage except tax exemptions - Let them have it but don't call it marriage. Doing so will legitimize that which isn't, opening up another horrible can of worms for no good reason. Their agenda is simply to indoctrinate innocents to believe that their life style is normal. They are a minorty in this world and I don't see why we're expected to buy into their agenda. They don't buy into mine.
This is a well reasoned article, it present valid answers to comments being made. However, it is unfortunately a waste of time. Those who support prop. 8 are not interested in reasoned thinking, legal points or justice. They would reather live in their ignorant biggotry. They have all of the answers, don't confuse them with the facts.
If the judge is gay, and I say if, and therefore in someway unfit to decide this case because he could beneifit from the ruling, the lawyers for prop. 8 should have challenged his assignment to the case at the start of the trial. But think about it, if being gay means he could benefit from the judgement, couldn't the same be said if he is straight? If civil partnership is equal to marriage, what benefits would he gain by the judgement? The pro prop 8 folk have painted themselves into a corner, and now can find no way out, except outlandish claims of biais.
Love the quote by Gandhi. "I like your Christ. It's your Christians I do not like. They are so un-Christlike."
August 17 2010 at 10:25 AM Report abuse Permalink +1 rate up rate down ReplyAlso, the judge ruled as he did to remove his temporary stay of his order overturning Prop. 8 because the litigants could list various ways gays were being harmed by prohibiting gay marriage, while those defending Prop. 8 could not list a single way anyone would be harmed by allowing gay marriage. Those who support Prop. 8 simply have no valid legal arguments.
August 16 2010 at 5:22 AM Report abuse Permalink +1 rate up rate down ReplyThe judge is in a long term relationship with another man and is a resident of California. Therefore, he may be a direct beneficiary of his own ruling. Obviously, he should have recused himself.
This was hardly a 'whim' by the electorate. There were sustaing 10,000 years of human history. It was the judicaiary that was 'whimsical' when they allowed gays to marry. W
If he was in a long term straight relationship, he would also gain from ruling the other way. If a (reportedly) gay person would possible gain from the ruling going one way, and a (self proclaimed) straight would possibly gain from the ruling going the other way, where do we go to get an unbiais ruleing?
August 16 2010 at 10:47 AM Report abuse Permalink +1 rate up rate down ReplyYeah - the gay judge gains about as as much as an african-amrerican "gains" from civil rights legislation. Except, the Gay community does not seem to have support from african-americans so I do concede that there is a big question there.
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