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Loretta Lynn famously sang, "You ain't woman enough to take my man," but today Harry Reid should be singing: "You ain't woman enough to take my manhood."

Of course, I'm referring to Sharron Angle's line during Thursday night's debate that Majority Leader Harry Reid should "man up."

Am I the only one to thinks this line, which essentially attempts to emasculate a political opponent, has become both pervasive and disturbing?

Politics Daily's Editor in Chief Melinda Henneberger also called it rude. And over at The Washington Post, Anne Kornblut does a good job recounting recent examples of the attempted emasculation of male candidates. As she recounts . . .
. . . Angle was not the first to question a male rival's machismo this year.

Christine O'Donnell, a few days before the Delaware primary, called Rep. Mike Castle (R) "unmanly" after he filed an election law complaint against her.
"This is not a bake-off - get your man-pants on," O'Donnell told a radio host.

Before that, Jane Norton, running for the Republican Senate nomination in Colorado, accused Ken Buck, her rival, of letting "a shady interest group" do his bidding. "You'd think Ken would be man enough to do it himself." And in a similar vein, Robin Carnahan (D-Mo.) told Republican Rep. Roy Blunt to "man up" over the health-care overhaul.

It's not just the women: New York gubernatorial candidate Carl Paladino accused his Democratic rival, Andrew Cuomo, of not having "cojones" -- three times! -- in an open letter challenging him to a debate. "Frankly, I don't think you have the cojones to face me and the other candidates in a open debate," Paladino wrote. (Back in July, Sarah Palin memorably said that President Obama lacked "the cojones" to take on illegal immigration.)

(I'll add this one: During his campaign for New Jersey governor, Chris Christie said Jon Corzine should "man up and say I'm fat.")

Politico's Jonathan Allen noted, "When a woman tells a man to 'man up'...it tends to have a little added zing: There's simply no way for the male candidate to respond -- let alone to respond in kind."

In any event, Christie's line -- which included pointing out that he was "fat" -- might have seemed like less of a slur, inasmuch as it was coupled with self-deprecating humor.

Kornblut goes on to put this name-calling in context, writing,
All this, in a year when male candidates have been accused of disrespecting women -- from the California governor's race, with a now-infamous phone call involving Jerry Brown (D) in which Meg Whitman was discussed as a "whore," to the Ohio House race involving a male Republican candidate sued for sexual assault.
Sadly, instead of decrying both the "whore" and the "man up" comments as inappropriate (granted, the former is more offensive), Kornblut jokingly dismisses Angle's challenging Reid's manhood as, perhaps, just a case of "one-up-man-ship." That may have made for a great closing line, but it does little to address whether this political rhetoric is fair or appropriate.

(Note: Politics Daily's "Woman Up" blog has written extensively about the recent rhetorical attacks against female politicians.)

As a conservative, I'm much closer to Sharron Angle's political philosophy than I am to Harry Reid's, and I wouldn't think twice about questioning his toughness. But questioning his manhood is another thing. (If I did that on the street, I'm willing to bet the old boxer might just take a swing at me).

For those of you who see nothing wrong with this, or think that I should, perhaps, "man up" in regards to this issue, consider the double standard.

What if Reid were to have questioned Sharron Angle's femininity? Would that have been fair game?

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You are correct with your opinion. I have been thinking the same thing and I am a woman. If Senator Reid had told her to put her big girl panties on and stop talking cracked and crazy. The women in this country would lose their minds. So the way I see it, don't dish it if she can't take it. The same for Palin when she disrespected the President of the United States. It's been a double standard for years, but if these men start fighting back, the women had better be ready to take it.

October 15 2010 at 11:39 PM Report abuse -4 rate up rate down Reply
George & Nancy

Democrats have been in charge of congress for the last 4 years. It was just mentioned today that there will be NO cost of living increase for those who are on social security. Well, that also means us federal govt retirees will not see a COLA in 2011, just like 2010. This will be the second time in the history of social security that there will be no raise, (both times under the obama administration). I guess this is how they plan to redistribute the wealth. Tell that to our friends who make $800 a month on social security even though they worked all their lives. The reasoning is that we are in a recession even though both years congress has voted themselves a raise for both of these years.

October 15 2010 at 6:32 PM Report abuse +6 rate up rate down Reply
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pttypinkley

George or is it Nancy? You are complaining that the "government" is not giving a cost of living increase for government employees, and I bet you have or will complain about this administration spending, spending, spending...you can't have it both ways!

October 15 2010 at 6:44 PM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply
msmb

Social Security cost-of-living increases are tied to the inflation rate, which has been nil for the last two years (actually deflation in 2009). It's not an automatic 'raise'--it can't be increased on a whim. On the bright side, thanks to healthcare reform most seniors are now receiving checks for the closing of the 'donut hole' in the Medicare prescription drug plan that Bush failed to pay for.

October 18 2010 at 3:39 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
YOU SICK HUMAN

There's an easy come back to tell a woman. Tell her to "Calm down". Nothing upsets a woman more. Ask any guy who has told his wife or girlfriend those two words.

October 15 2010 at 6:07 PM Report abuse +8 rate up rate down Reply
Kiza

I don't think the term "man up," in this day and age really has anything to do with being a man. Calling Meg Whitman a "*****" and telling Harry Reid to "man up" are very different. As a female athlete I've been told to "man-up" by coaches for years, it's akin to saying "there's no crying in baseball." The fellas can easily respond in kind, they could easily say the same thing back to the ladies, the difference is the women in these cases aren't the ones complaining and feeling sorry for themselves so there is no need for them to "man-up"

October 15 2010 at 4:38 PM Report abuse +3 rate up rate down Reply
Leo

Maybe he should tell her to WOMAN UP?

October 15 2010 at 3:18 PM Report abuse -4 rate up rate down Reply
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dt987624

She has!! Just watch the debate.

October 16 2010 at 11:39 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

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