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In a recorded video address posted Thursday night on the White House blog, President Obama spoke to the recent suicides of several gay youth, victims of peer harassment and bullying. Saying the deaths "shocked and saddened" him and that teen suicide "breaks my heart," the president called upon all Americans to be more vigilant about such matters. "We have got to dispel this myth that bullying is just a normal right of passage, that it's some inevitable part of growing up," he said. "It's not."

To teens still coping with the struggle of sexual identity at home and at school, Obama recalled his own experience as an adolescent. "I do know what it's like to grow up feeling like sometimes you don't belong. It's tough." And he offered a message of hope: "You are not alone. You didn't do anything wrong. You didn't do anything to deserve being bullied. And there is a whole world waiting for you, full of possibilities." He added, "There are people out there who love you and care about you, just the way you are. . . . You've got to reach out to people you trust."

The address is not the first time Obama has spoken to the issue in recent weeks. At an MTV-sponsored town hall meeting last week -- aimed at engaging younger voters -- the president was asked about online bullying and gay suicides. He noted that the Department of Education had initiated a summit to determine how local and state officials might coordinate structures to help young people "feel safe, where there's a trigger that goes off when this kind of bullying starts taking place, so that immediately school officials can nip it at the bud."

He called for schools to further institute zero-tolerance policies against bullying and reiterated that "there are laws against this kind of harassment." Said Obama, "Sending that message of seriousness is something that I think we all have to do."

In the same remarks, the president was plainspoken as to the root cause of harassment. "The law doesn't always change what's in people's hearts," he said. "And so all of us have an obligation to think about how we're treating other people. There's a values component to this that all of us have to be in a serious conversation about."

The president's White House video is also featured in the "It Gets Better Project" -- a support forum for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender youth.


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drcherilsquinn

You might enjoy my take on the issue of bullying. I basically believe kids are following the examples they see of adults in positions of power who bully as a matter of course. I blogged more extensively on the topic at http://www.blogger.com/posts.g?blogID=5674007331509588745

October 22 2010 at 8:52 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Willie

why not address all teen suicides , not just the gays ?

October 22 2010 at 12:42 PM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply
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bng1959

gay teens are 4x more likely to take thier own life, If that gay teen has been rejected by his/her family the odds go to 8x more likely. Most kids have a support system at home with thier family, if a short kid, ugly kid, too smart kid, diffrent color skin kid gets bullied they go home and mom and dad comfort them, A lot of gay teens most fear thier family finding from fear of rejection. They are isotated and alone in a way that for some is too much to take. This is the main diffrence. Not having the support system at home. Teen suicides of any kind is something to address no matter what the reason. I was just wanting to maybe help someone understand why gay kids are more at risk. IT DOES GET BETTER

October 22 2010 at 1:23 PM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply
RICHARD BONNET

HOW ABOUT PRESIDENT OBAMA ADDRESSING THE VIOLENCE IN BLACK NEIBORHOODS. THERE IS MORE BULLING AND VIOLENCE THAN IN GAY AREAS.

October 22 2010 at 12:36 PM Report abuse +5 rate up rate down Reply
cma723

Until people realize that they must love God with all their heart, mind and soul, and love their neighbor--this will never stop.

October 22 2010 at 12:32 PM Report abuse +3 rate up rate down Reply
MARK

Is this part of never let a disaster go to waist? This man has no shame!

October 22 2010 at 12:23 PM Report abuse +3 rate up rate down Reply
truthforfreedom

For one, criminal charges should be lodged against any cyber bully and the parents should be cited as well. Secondly, if school teachers or administrators know of anybody in their schools doing this, they should take action immediately, not wait until a tradgedy happens. It is a dispicable thing.

October 22 2010 at 12:14 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

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