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Following the Academy Awards telecast, Mike Huckabee told radio host Michael Medved "I'm very happy to say that I missed it because usually it's about the most boring waste of several hours that I've ever experienced."

I can't disagree with the former governor about the dullness of most of this year's broadcast, but I dotake issue with what he had to say next about Best Actress winner Natalie Portman. The former and perhaps future GOP presidential aspirant disparaged the star for being a poor example by encouraging women to have "out-of-wedlock" children (why not just call them "bastards," Huck?).

Like Huckabee, I missed Natalie Portman thanking the Academy and the special gratitude the notably pregnant movie star bestowed on her choreographer boyfriend Benjamin Millepied, who in addition to training Portman on her award-winning ballet moves, is the daddy of her baby due sometime this spring. Suggesting that raising her baby-to-be would be her most imperative portrayal, Portman said Millepied has given her "my most important role."

My colleague Lizzie Skurnick has implied that Natalie's boyfriend is essentially a full service "sperm donor" albeit on a much more intimate level than the character played by Mark Ruffalo in the competing film "The Kids Are All Right." In that Oscar-nominated movie, Annette Bening (also nominated in the Best Actress category) plays one half of a lesbian couple with co-star Julianne Moore. Their characters conceive two children using sperm samples from the same donor. In a key scene Moore tells the teenagers "the bottom line is marriage is hard. It's really f---in' hard. It's just two people slogging through the s--t, year after year, getting older, changing - f---ing marathon, okay?" I love my husband but I must agree.

While some feminists chafed at Portman's use of the superlative, and wondered whether reproducing is truly "the greatest thing Natalie Portman will do with her life?" my colleague Joanne Bamberger countered, "the experience of motherhood adds, not subtracts, from the full picture of being an accomplished woman."

Portman at 29 has worked as an actor since she was 11 years old, is literally and theatrically a beautiful girl, and is indisputably an inspiring creative talent. Portman loves her profession and has delivered sustained theatrical excellence for 18 years. Disciplined in both work and school, she is also a stellar role model for studious science-oriented girls. In high school her "environmentally friendly" project to convert waste into useful energy, was a semifinalist in the prestigious Intel Science Talent Search and she later graduated from Harvard where she studied neuroscience and the evolution of the mind.

Disclosure: I walked out of the theater last fall during Darren Aronofsky's film "Black Swan" (I have low tolerance for self-mutilation images). Nonetheless, for first 20 minutes of Natalie Portman's on screen performance, I found her character persuasively sober and damaged, (especially impressive, since we now know, the actress was having a great romance with her dance instructor and was presumably swimming in oxytocin).

As she has proven to be in so many other areas, Portman will no doubt be a successful mother. Huckabee, a conservative family values proponent who has written a book declaring "The Most Important Form of Government Is a Father, Mother, and Children," nevertheless used her winning moment to insult "most single moms" who he described as "very poor, uneducated, can't get a job, and if it weren't for government assistance, their kids would be starving to death and never have health care."

In my family, we are particularly fond of moms who make it on their own. Until our now adult daughter was 13, I was a husbandless mother. I was also "uneducated" but I was a quick learner, loved my daughter and worked hard. Rearing a child, like marriage, is a marathon. Portman will soon find that with or without a baby daddy to help in the wee hours, and even with "nannies, and caretakers, and nurses," caring for and protecting her new tiny human, she will have moments, both humbling and thrilling, like nothing she has ever rehearsed.

(I might also add that as able and loving a father my husband has been to both our children for the last 26 years, there is never a guarantee a partner will be a worthy co-parent. All reproducing women should at least be prepared to shoulder the job alone.)

My daughter did not starve to death and coincidentally is now herself a member of the Motion Picture Academy which votes on the Oscars. As she cast her ballot for the Bening/Moore film, she joked she was in solidarity with the sperm donor. In political elections and film industry awards, people vote based on their bias, emotional reactions and strongly held belief in their candidates' abilities. Little things sway the results.

Although he has not officially decided whether he will run in the 2012 race, Mike Huckabee has apparently been looking to sway some votes of his own.
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K-Bizzle

Mike Huckabee's comments on Natalie Portman's pregnancy are unwarranted and absurd. Portman is 29-years-old, Harvard educated, successful, and most importantly (to Huckabee's argument) engaged to her baby's father. It seems a bit hypocritical that Huck would slam Portman's choice to carry her pregnancy to term, and be a mother, rather than take other options he has built a platform around condemning.
And what about Huckabee's comments praising Bristol Palin and her family in such a "tough time" during the 08 elections? Palin was/is an unwed, uneducated teenage mother who is not with the baby's father and uses her "experience" as a take-off point for her career. Maybe the Huckster should look at condemning Bristol for exploiting her pregnancy, and her child, to gain an extra buck. Huckabee may as well take a look at Levi Johnston for being a dead-beat dad and splitting on his son's mother.
At least for Natalie and her fiance Benjamin, they are both successful in their own rights, and will provide for their child, without having to go on "Dancing With the Stars." Huckabee needs to move out of the 1950s, and into the new millenium. Divorce rates are settling around 50%, so would it really matter if Natalie and Benjamin got married or not?
Bottom line, look at everything else Natalie Portman has accomplished in her life. She's successful, ivy-league educated, a published scientist, a world ambassador for FINCA, an outspoken activist, and soon enough a mother. She should be praised for these things, instead of slammed for not having the "ideal" pregnancy in the eyes of a conservative, evangelical Governor from Arkansas.

March 08 2011 at 1:44 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
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js4fl

You actually make some good points, but MISS the main one. It would have taken Portman & her baby's father just a few hours TO GET MARRIED. Even before their baby's conception, when they were obviously committing adultery, which has been a crime ALL through human history, EVEN in America, & EVEN in NY State, until 1976, if memory serves, just after I was dating the widowed NY Gov. Hugh Carey's oldest child of 12, Randy, in 1968 (without committing adultery, I must say!). Adultery, by BOTH parties, and of BOTH kinds, hetero- & homo-sexual, was a death penalty offense in Ancient Israel. A key point which Goldstein NEVER mentions.

March 09 2011 at 9:31 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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truthforfreedom

Huckabee was not critcizing the baby only the self centerded girl. Most unwed mothers can barely afford to look after themselves, let alone a child. This unwed mother doesn't have that to worry about. I still feel sorry for the baby and I still find it a sticky situation as the kid grows up around intact families. They do question sometimes and how they percieve these things is not the same for everyone. Some get positive results and others not so.

Kids grow up more secure with both, mom and dad.

March 07 2011 at 3:38 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
Stogie

Yes, Natalie Portman lives in a free country and can have all of the out-of-wedlock babies that she wants. That's not the issue. The issue is that having a child out of wedlock is not ideal for the child; children are best raised in a home that contains both parents. Goldstein's attempt to recast Huckabee's remarks as somehow picking on the unborn child is dishonest. Portman is in the public eye and it is important that someone remind young people that Portman's choice was not the best and should not be purposely emulated -- for the sake of the unborn children.

March 07 2011 at 1:14 AM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
ettu

Anyone who would parade their private dalliances in such a public venue should expect comments, good, bad, or indifferent.

March 06 2011 at 9:47 PM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply
Dave!!!

Natalie Portman is a fine actress who obviously has her moral compass screwed up! This is a simple example of another Hollywood star who believes that they can do what they want - no matter what the established morals are. Makes me sick to think what message this sends to our young adults.

March 06 2011 at 6:41 PM Report abuse +3 rate up rate down Reply
bayleon02

Natalie Portman is 29 years old, an adult, established in her career and engaged to the father of her child. Her situation is not the same as a young high school girl who hasn't even graduated from high school, is still a child herself in many respects, and will need lots of help from her family in order to raise a baby. I can't see young girls identifying with her exactly. They are much more likely to be influenced by peers and family than an actress. I think Mr. Huckabee has every right to be concerned about teenage pregnancy but his argument is side tracked somewhat by the example he chose. Parenting is not for the faint of heart, and it's for life. You can divorce your spouse, if need be, but not your kids. It is the biggest responsibility you will ever undertake and we need to do a better job of communicating that to young girls and boys.

March 06 2011 at 3:50 PM Report abuse +4 rate up rate down Reply
gene t salerno

I think Hukabee's comments are valid. Most children born to unwed mothers have been proven to suceed less in life than their contemporaries. The very reasons given extolling Natalie Portman, (a beautiful, intelligent, inspiring talent) should cause her to be even more of a role model for young, aspiring, women. For her to allow herself to be impregnated shows a definate lack of respect for herself and for her admirers. What's wrong with marriage?

March 06 2011 at 3:34 PM Report abuse +5 rate up rate down Reply
tnickerson08

Note to Ms. Goldstein: Where were you when david letterman made the comment about Sara Palin's daughter? Where were you when tucker carlson made his nasty comment about Sara Palin? Mike HUckabee's comment were mild compared to theirs.

March 06 2011 at 2:31 PM Report abuse +3 rate up rate down Reply
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Richard

Letterman is a comedian, albeit a bad one. And there has never been any excuse for Tucker Carlson and his bowtie.

March 06 2011 at 5:51 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
atlasusa

What I did not get about Mike Huckabee's comments: it seemed as though he was condemning Miss Portman for having the child and would have condoned terminating the pregnancy.... as the lesser of two evils I just don't get Mike Huckabee.

March 06 2011 at 7:51 AM Report abuse -2 rate up rate down Reply
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lillyluminatus

This occurred to me as well. Natalie Portman is doing everything "right" by conservative standards--carrying the unplanned pregnancy to term, marrying the baby's father--and yet she is something to be denounced?!

Mike Huckabee needs to get over the fact that he does not, indeed, have control over the bodies of women and cannot, therefore, prevent them from living their own lives. At least he has made clear what this is really about--a denunciation of the sexuality of unmarried women.

Which, of course, is what it has always been, and which is why conservatives declare war on contraception whilst professing to despise abortion and claiming to want to prevent it at all costs.

Hypocrites, plain and simple.

March 06 2011 at 5:02 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
ettu

You need to spend a little more time listening and analyzing, before commenting.

March 06 2011 at 9:49 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
hedgedevil

Hey Huckabee keep it up.For one your right Portman should not be having kids out of wedlock.This is a terrible example for anyone.

March 06 2011 at 6:31 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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lillyluminatus

So she should have done...what exactly? Terminate the pregnancy?

March 06 2011 at 5:05 PM Report abuse -2 rate up rate down Reply

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