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For a few hours on Thursday morning, President Obama donned the cap of America's "Father-in Chief," hosting the White House Conference on Bullying Prevention. Standing alongside the first lady, the president announced, "If there's one goal of this conference, it's to dispel the myth that bullying is just a harmless rite of passage or an inevitable part of growing up. It's not. Bullying can have destructive consequences for our young people."

As evidence, the president recalled victims of bullying who had taken their own lives: "They felt like they had nowhere to turn, as if they had no escape from taunting and bullying that made school something they feared."

Citing the almost 3 million students who have said they were "pushed, shoved, tripped, even spit on," Obama said that bullying was "more likely to affect kids that are seen as different -- whether it's because of the color of their skin, the clothes they wear, the disability they may have, or sexual orientation."

The White House Conference, which brought together 150 students, parents, educators, advocates and policymakers, focused on creating public and private sector partnerships to address the issue of bullying, both inside and outside of schools.

Included among the initiatives announced during the conference were: new tools on Facebook to discourage online harassment, a new campaign spearheaded by MTV to fight bullying, the launch of a resource website, StopBullying.Org, and a PTA campaign that will encourage parents to share resources and coordinate efforts to stop bullying in schools.

Obama noted that Secretary of Education Arne Duncan and Secretary of Health and Human Services Kathleen Sebelius would be coordinating efforts to monitor harassing behavior in schools nationwide.

Both the president and first lady emphasized the role of parents in monitoring harassment at school and in social networks.

Offering a glimpse into their own home life, Michelle Obama recalled, "As parents, Barack and I also know that sometimes -- maybe even a lot of the time -- it's really hard for parents to know what's going on in our kids' lives. We don't always know, because they don't always tell us every little detail. We know that from Sasha. Sasha's response is -- "What happened at school today?" "Nothing." That's it."

She continued, chucking, "It's like, well, we're taking you out of that school."

The president, for his part, said of the parent-child relationship: "It's our job to be there for them, to guide them, and to ensure that they can grow up in an environment that not only encourages their talents and intelligence, but also their sense of empathy and their regard for one another."

Speaking to his own experience with bullying, Obama offered, "I have to say, with big ears and the name that I have, I wasn't immune. I didn't emerge unscathed."

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orangeb1811

The bullies are all in Wisconsin; Obama could go and cool that.

March 11 2011 at 4:25 PM Report abuse +3 rate up rate down Reply
Mikey

...Is this the same fellow that said "if they bring a knife, you bring a gun"? Oh my gosh. I don't think this fellow has a clue. He has never held a private sector job. He has never felt the intimidation tactics to join a union. He considers the United States to have bullied the rest of the world because we are a super power. I thinik it's ironic at best for him and his wife to hold a white house conference on bullying. God help us !

March 11 2011 at 3:05 PM Report abuse +5 rate up rate down Reply
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vobox3343

I take it, you don't see the bullying comments about the President on these boards? Open your eyes!

March 12 2011 at 3:11 PM Report abuse -1 rate up rate down Reply
thndrshwr34

We have serious unrest in the Middle East and in particular Libya, gasoline prices going off the chart, union thugs 'bullying' talks in Wisconsin and causing over a million and a half damages to the State House, and the silence from the White House is deafening, yet the Obama's, have time to hold a conferance on 'BULLYING'? Should that not be local problems not a problem at the federal level?? What is next federal troops in the schoolyard? Another example of government interference in our lives. Can 2012 come to soon!

March 11 2011 at 11:28 AM Report abuse +6 rate up rate down Reply
deckerfam

Doesn't Obama have any other pressing items on his agenda? I don't believe it's the Federal Government's job to police our schools. As a 5th grader, I was shunned when my sister won a beauty contest. It was a horrible experience that was not resolved until my dad was transferred. However, I emerged a stronger person because of it. Government interference may have actually made it worse.

March 11 2011 at 10:59 AM Report abuse +5 rate up rate down Reply
conservgirl8

Bullying has been around for eons. I'm not sure we can totally eradicate it. Being called dumbo ears or having your name meanly referred to, to me, shouldn't cause undo damage, however, some people do get bullyied because of the way they talk, or have a physical impairment, etc., and that could be damaging. It takes a diligent parent and aware school official to get that in check, and unfortunately, some slip through the cracks. I fear that it is virtually impossible to manage people's behavior and don't think that bullying will ever disappear in total.
The vicious, threatening type of bullying is where people can make a difference. That, in schools cannot be overlooked as normal bullying. The kids who walk around threatening to cause bodily harm, or in todays world, using the internet, facebook, etc., for verbal bullying or threats on another person can be stopped early if the victim will tell immediately. It's a slippery slope to think that we can eradicate it in total, but sever punishment can be inflicted upon the bully and serve as examples to all bullys to be ware! Parents need to have access to school authorities and those school authorities must listen and they, together should monitor their students.

I'm not sure our President should be getting involved in any legislative effort, nor should the HHS or Dept of Education be monitoring this behavior, but, I have my doubts he can resist the challenge as he loves to think he can save everyone, and when the federal government gets involved they usually go to far.

March 11 2011 at 9:23 AM Report abuse +4 rate up rate down Reply

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